"Excuses, Excuses...Marriage is a COVENANT!"
Your own "capacity" determines whether "irreconcilable differences" will be a reality in your life or not. Sometimes, the only choice you have is separation or divorce; but quickly claiming that something is irreconcilable, insults the "grace" of God available to the believer - which makes all things possible in the heat of any battle. Don't let your hurt and inability to communicate be the reason changing desires and petty inconveniences steal your affections from your mate. It's a covenant, even if you no longer believe in it! Don't let the culture and all the rampant compromises you've seen poison your soul...WS-3